Download our safety plan template to use with your child. 

What is included in this self-harm safety plan?

When we feel overwhelmed, it can be difficult to identify in that moment what can help. This is where a safety plan comes in. In times of distress, a safety plan is there to refer to for details on how to get help and who to contact, and as a reminder of the techniques that your child finds helpful. 

You can download the suicide and self-harm safety plan template for children and young people using the button below. You can work through this printable sheet with your child in a calm moment when you have lots of time together to identify what may be helpful when self-harm urges arise. 

How do I use this safety plan for children?

By identifying strategies with your child in advance, you'll feel more prepared to support them when things get difficult. 

When creating a safety plan, this should be done collaboratively with your child. Having an open dialogue around what they may be feeling before a crisis can help when it comes to identifying specific triggers, so you can be more prepared to support them in the moment, and as a family. 

Download the parents' guide below for the full information on how to complete the safety plan with your child.

What can I include in a personalised safety plan for my child? 

  • People your child trusts, and those they feel comfortable talking to
  • A list of contact numbers who can be available when needed
  • Places or behaviours that may be possible triggers and strategies that enable them to find a sense of calm when they arise
  • Instructions on what to do in the case of an emergency
  • What coping strategies help when they feel distressed
  • Ways they can self-soothe, including a self soothe box, favourite music, a snuggly blanket or cuddly toy.

What is a safety plan for children and young people?

A safety plan is a practical tool that can be used to support a child, teenager or young person with urges and feelings around self-harm.

A safety plan consists of a list of coping strategies that work specifically for your child. This means they can be used during a self-harm crisis, or before as a preventative measure when specific behaviours become noticeable. 

Further support

If a life is at imminent risk, please call 999 or attend your nearest A&E for immediate help.

Samaritans - call 116 123

Shout - text the word 'Shout' to 85258

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