Coercive Control

Coercive control is behaviour aimed at controlling another person. 

Definition, signs, examples, and how you can obtain support for yourself or someone you know. 

What is coercive control?

This type of abuse involves being coerced into behaviour that you do not want to, and aspects of your everyday life being controlled. This also isolates the victim and makes them dependent on the abuser. 

Signs of coercive control

Some of the signs that someone is under coercive control include:

  • They're not allowed to do things without agreement from their partner
  • They seem fearful of their partner 
  • Their partner controls their access to money (see economic (financial) abuse)
  • Their daily life is restricted
  • They become isolated from friends and family.
Examples of coercive control

Below are some examples of coercive control:

  • Monitoring everything you do
  • Being in control of who you see, where you go etc
  • Put downs and verbal abuse
  • Intimidation
  • Isolating you
  • Removing your freedom
  • Threats
  • Controlling your access to money.

If you recognise traits of coercive control in yourself or someone you know, you can get help and support. 

Explore our list of organisations you can contact to get the help and support you need, or find out more information on how to support or help someone who may be being abused.