In Wiltshire, the parenting and group work team recognised just how many parents were navigating this transition without enough support. Spotting a clear gap in local provision, the team developed a KCA approved teen-focussed approach programme Wiltshire that embeds the Five to Thrive model. The aim was simple but powerful: to inspire parents to take early, proactive steps that strengthen connection and confidence at home.
What makes the approach stand out is that it has been created from a parent and a professional perspective. It acknowledges the emotional reality of raising teens and offers practical guidance that feels grounded, compassionate and doable.
A course built for real-life parenting
The family hub programme runs both in person and virtually, making it accessible to a wide range of families in the Wiltshire area. Parents meet for three weekly one and a half hour sessions, creating a space that is supportive, focused and manageable for busy schedules.
So far, around 30 parents have taken part, and their feedback has been remarkably consistent. Because these groups are a space for parents and carers to share ideas and explore what has and has not worked for them rather than being told what to do with their teens.
Provided me with ideas and tools I can use with my teenager to improve communication between us, and how to engage better. Highlighted how important some of the things are that we already do
Parents fed back that three themes emerged as especially valuable
Understanding teen brain development
Parents often find relief in learning that many teen behaviours - including impulsiveness or risk‑taking - are developmentally normal. Physically, teens may look almost grown but their brains are still catching up. This mismatch can create tension, confusion and frustration on both sides. Knowing why this happens helps parents respond with more empathy and less panic.
Communication that works
One of the biggest shifts parents face is that teens rarely initiate connection the way younger children do. Instead of them coming to you, you often must go to them, but not always with words. The programme explores communication styles that prioritise emotional availability, patience and presence rather than long conversations teens may not be ready for.
The power of connection
Connection remains the foundation of healthy teen development. Even when teens pull away, they still need closeness, reassurance and a sense of safety. The course helps parents recognise moments to connect and offers ideas for strengthening relationships in small, everyday ways.
A growing resource for families
By blending neuroscience, practical communication tools and a deep respect for parents’ lived experience, this programme offers something many families have been searching for: reassurance, guidance and a reminder that they’re not alone.
