Autism Awareness Day 2025

Autism Awareness Day is a worldwide campaign aimed at understanding what autism is and why inclusivity is important. At Spurgeons, we provide support to autistic children through our family hubs.

One project that directly works with autistic children and their families is Stepping Stones in our Birmingham hub.

How our Birmingham hub helped a mum and her son

Afaf* had suspected something was different about her 3 year old son, Zaki*, for some time. He was much calmer than her other children, displayed limited eye contact, and had delayed developmental milestones. Over time it became more apparent to Afaf that Zaki may be autistic; he was nonverbal, struggled with social interaction, and did not respond to his name.

At his two-year health check, the possibility of autism was raised by the health visitor. At first, Afaf found it difficult to accept, but as she researched further, she realized that Zaki exhibited many characteristics associated with autism. One of the biggest challenges she faced was his difficulty in communicating his needs, leading to frustration and distress. She recalls a heart breaking moment when he cried uncontrollably because he could not express his thirst.

Afaf tried to take Zaki to Stay and Play sessions in Birmingham, but he found them overwhelming and was upset by the noise. However, they then began to attend Stepping Stones sessions, which are specifically for SEND children. Over time Zaki discovered his love for musical instruments, particularly rainmakers and drums. 'He loves anything that makes noise—drums, rainmakers, even pots and pans!' says Afaf. 'Before, he would just cry at playgroups, now he gets excited to go.'

The structured and consistent environment of Stepping Stones, including the same children attending each week, provided him with a safe space to explore, develop, and interact with other children. 'Just seeing him excited to go somewhere- I didn’t think he’d even know we’re going somewhere, but he does. I like that he likes it. Basically, that showed me he wanted to be there, to go play there,' says Afaf.

Toddler boy climbing through a play tunnel

Support and hope

Zaki now attends a Stay and Play session every week, where he has shown great progress in adapting to group settings. Although he still prefers his own space, he is no longer distressed by the presence of other children.

Afaf has also benefited from attending the groups, forming connections with other parents, including one who also has an autistic child. This peer support has been invaluable in her journey.

With the help of Spurgeons, Afaf has received support completing an application for Disability Living Allowance (DLA), which they are waiting on a result for. Zaki has an upcoming appointment with a paediatrician to progress towards an official diagnosis of autism. Looking ahead, Afaf hopes to secure a spot for Zaki in a local nursery setting, recommended by the family hub for the excellent SEND provision it provides.

Afaf recommends parents look for local support to help. 'Don’t suffer in silence,' she says, 'reach out and you won’t regret it.'